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The personal qualities that make eating disorders so tenacious can be harnessed to provide a major resource in bringing about a sustainable recovery.
Generalizations are notoriously risky, but it does seem to me that my clients who have used their relationship with food as a coping strategy have several qualities in common. These include:
Though many are young in years, my clients frequently seem wise beyond those years. Sometimes, it seems as if they jumped from childhood to adulthood without going through a messy transition. This can be deceptive, for their powerful combination of intelligence and competence can mislead others into believing all is well - especially if that's what others want to believe. Despite the anguish and sometimes despair of these clients, the following attributes and motivations can often be discerned:
Their occupations have reflected these qualities:
Each client has used their coaching relationship with me to empower and embolden themselves, to discover their own perfection and develop new skills and confidence. They have then felt able to take more considered risks, to satisfy themselves and enrich their lives without having to resort to self-punishing coping strategies. If there is anything in this broad profile that resonates with you, we may have a basis for a productive partnership. You can explore further by scheduling a free exploratory visit or 'phone discussion. My contact details are below:
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